Detail of a painting by Heather Heath |
A friend in
need is a friend indeed
At least
that’s what they say,
But a friend
to me is like a weed
That blooms
most every day
They hang around,
they pay me heed,
In what I do
or say,
That’s how I
like a friend to be
A friend
that I let close to me.
I like a
friend that will be true
I like a
friend who makes me tea
A friend to
trust and to pull through,
A friend who
listens to my pleas,
And when I’m
feeling sad or blue
I like a friend
who laughs with me.
That’s how I
like a friend to be,
A friend who
I let close to me.
True friends
know acceptance is the game
Yet they
will tell you when you’re wrong
They never
will forget your name
And when you
sing they sing along
It doesn’t
matter if there’s pain
They sing
the notes in any song.
That’s how I
like a friend to be,
A friend
that I let close to me.
But friendship
is a street for two,
I’ll not
forget this thing,
I will be a
good friend too
And we don’t
have to sing,
We just have
to muddle through,
And let our
hearts take wing,
'Cause friendship
doesn’t happen every other day
It really is
quite precious, that’s all I have to say!
~Kathie
Adams Brown (April 8, 2013)
This is a great reflection on the power of friendship. I love the comparison of a good friend to a weed.
ReplyDeleteThanks Sandy. It just kinda came out!
DeleteYou said just the right amount, Kathie. Just then I did a lot of thinking about the friends I've had during my life. It is fun to look them back up. Some, mostly the girls, I cannot find.
ReplyDeleteI love the first three syllable endings,
That’s how I like a friend to be,
A friend that I let close to me.
Friendship cannot be forced and once the bond is made he/she may never go away. My dog, Adi, died last September, she was my bosom friend. My ex strayed. I don't know which loss made me sadder.
(We have another dog, a toy poodle but she isn't Adi. Also I have been remarried now for 40 plus years and we do very fine.)
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Jim, the loss of a dog is a hard thing to bear. The betrayal of a loved one even harder. I am glad that you found love again, both in a dog and with a spouse! Companionship and love are so essential to our lives. I am glad that neither tragedy kept you from living your life or finding love again.
DeleteLove the comparison to weeds that you then grow to appreciate as wild flowers. Like weeds, friends can turn out to be quite resilient little suckers than fill in the cracks!
ReplyDeleteAnd the lesson at the end regarding working at keeping the traffic going both ways...adds depth and gets us reflecting immediately. Thanks!
Micheal, thank you so much for your comments! I like your interpretation of friends being resilient and filling in the cracks. So true! I also think that we have potential friends around us and often overlook them because they appear so ordinary and common!
DeleteAs for the final stanza, I feared it was getting too self-centered and wanted to emphasize that friendship is a two-way street. I try very hard to be a good friend as well as having a good friend! I am glad you liked this turn of thought!
This is really lovely!
ReplyDeleteThanks Mama Zen!
DeleteThis is a perfect poem to give to a friend! Lovely!
ReplyDeleteThanks poetessinprogress!
DeleteHi Kathie
ReplyDeleteI thought you really captured the nature of friendship.
Very Nice.
Guy
Thanks Guy!
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